
I'm having some emotional problems with something that happened recently.
I met this guy online, and we both hit it off, we really liked each other. The day we met, the date didn't go as planned and we just chilled at his place. Things git heated and we started making out on his bed, nothing more happened. We then got dinner and walked to the train station when he said to me he had a really amazing time and wanted to arrange another date! I was so happy and said to him I'd have to check my availability. Then the day after I started feeling panicky, unsure, so confused because of how fast things went the day before, I tried to talk to him about it telling him I needed a day or 2 to think about what I really wanted. It felt like he weren't fully paying attention to what I was trying to talk to him about over text, and I got upset over it because I wanted to talk to him about how I felt. I knew he was busy, and said we'll talk properly when you can. The next day I tell him the same thing I told him yesterday and he said he was there to talk properly. I retold him, and I told him I had a thought about things and I was just scared and confused and I wanted to progress things and I actually felt things blossoming with him. He said he was glad I knew how I felt and we were happy. The next day he says he's so confused, doesn't know how he feels and doesn't want me to wait around to find out. I tried to talk to him more. He told me he felt like there were no sparks or clicks on the day and doesn't want a relationship with me at all not not and probably not in the future??? Eventually his messages get blunt...short and then he blocks me completely.
Why did he completely changed his tone after he wanted to see me again, then tells me he doesn't anymore???!!!
I'm quite overly emotionally sensitive, and it causes me to fall for guys easily. But I then get so hurt when stuff like this happens.
I need advice and guidance on how to deal with this in an easier way so I can live a life with a more stronger, harder, and healthier emotional mentality.
Thank you so much!!!
