by Ticktock » Fri Jul 22, 2011 6:31 pm
It is actually quite difficult for a woman to come during sexual intercourse. Essentially you want to get penetration but still get some friction on the clitoris, and you need a male who can last long enough to let you finish, very far from easy!
Although faking can be rewarding for your partner it doesn't actually allow you to tune into your own reactions, and as you have found, sometimes you get found out!
If you really want to try then take a break from sex for a while, a few days at least, and just concentrate on touching and massage, teach him where you like to be touched and how. Once you are ready take it slowly and leave enough time for a second try, most men last significantly longer then. It will probably not work at first, you have taught yourself some bad habits, but you should significantly enjoy the trying more and who knows, eventually let go.
Also try "She comes first" by Ian Kerner to give him some education on oral sex...
I can actually count on my 2 hands the amount of times a guy has actually made me come...what the hell is wrong with me????? like i get so close to it sometimes then i think about it too much and i lose it? it is driving me insane and a couple of guys i've dated have actually commented like 'did u actually come there?' it is doing my head in why can't i just let go 
