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im a woman turned on by gay men

Post by pinky-tots » Tue Mar 11, 2008 11:20 pm

im a woman of 31 with a12 yr old child dont no wat it is but the only thing that turns me on is the thought of 2 gay men, i dont understand this....WHY???? am i turned on by it. :-?

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Post by bubble&squeak » Wed Mar 12, 2008 2:39 pm

A lot of men are turned on by 2 (or more!) lesbians getting it on so why cant it work vice versa? Everyone get's turned on by different things! I don't think you have much to worry about!? maybe the idea of a 3some with 2 guys and yourself interests u?!
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Post by snail » Wed Mar 12, 2008 6:16 pm

On the face of it, it doesn't make sense but it's a very common female turn-on. As Bubble&Squeak said, surely you must have heard how many men are turned on by the idea of two lesbians - it's just the same.

Sexual fantasies aren't a problem unless they are the ONLY way you can get turned on, ever, in which case they are a fetish and sex therapy might be useful. But what you've said is so normal that I wouldn't worry about it.

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Post by pinky-tots » Mon Mar 17, 2008 2:49 pm

thanx for ur reply bubble&squeak and snail.......
the idea of 2 men and myself does realy appeal to me, not that i would ever have the guts to do it, ur both right about men likin the thought of 2 women, i just never looked at it that way b4...
thanx 4 ur help.....
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Post by The Lady » Wed Apr 23, 2008 11:37 pm

Me too. Find the whole idea very erotic.

But then I am a bit odd! :wink:

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Post by lorna » Thu Apr 24, 2008 10:00 am

Do you have ANY idea how many straight women I've spoken to who found the idea of Jake Gynhenhall and Heath Ledger in Brokeback Mountain really hot? lol

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Post by The Lady » Thu May 08, 2008 9:17 pm

Ooh yes I fell in love with Heath Ledger in The Patriot.
HAVE to see Brokeback Mountain now...

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Re: im a woman turned on by gay men

Post by retrochav » Sat May 10, 2008 9:00 pm

As a gay man, i was asked countless times by girls if they could watch or join me and my ex boyfriend. I always advised them that fantasy is better than reality. In fantasy, people act instinctively in ways that you want them too.

Theres nothing wrong with fantasies. Masterbation, or fantasizing with a lover can be really hot. There are lots of bi - porn where two bi guys are watched and joined by a girl to different degrees so you arent alone as there is a big market for it.

Some guys will be cool about watching porn where girl on girl and boy on boy happens around boy/girl action. I wouldnt suggest acting it out unless it really suited you - it would probably seem a bit borring to be honest! So have a look on line for DVDS or mags, which you can enjoy - or indeed look on gay porn sites of which there are many.
whatever your problem someone else has been there and bears the scars.

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Post by fairy of darkness » Sun Jul 20, 2008 10:18 am

Oh iv had SO many experiences with gay men its ridiculous
i am the definition of FAG HAG haha
but
its so normal to be turned on by them
hell i am!
they take care of themselves and just are appealing
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Post by lavalamplee » Sun Jul 27, 2008 12:39 pm

i dont think you have anything to worry about - i find two men kissing very very very attractive :)

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