I had this FRIEND who i got on with really well, could talk to about ANYTHING and always had amazing banter with. 39 yr old. Bouncer on the street where i used to PR. I get a night off and go to my sisters 30th night out. It was going to cost me nearly £30 for a taxi home so he offered to come and collect me and drop me home when he'd finished work. And he did! I was VERY DRUNK! I remember dropping my friend off at home, then the next thing I remember is falling in his house, having a drink, and I woke up in the morning. Deed done. And that is my recollection of how the night ended. Never been so drunk in my life!

I woke up with a bad eye infection also, and had to go to hospital. I was diagnosed with "Traumatic Conjunctivitis" and if I recall - "Bruised eyes"?
I was pretty much BLIND. I was so upset and scared.
I went home with eye drops and it took 4 days to get my eyesight back to normal and another 2 days before I actually sat and thought..."Oh my god - I slept with him!"
And too late for any emergency contraception.

So!! I soon stop worrying when I take a period a few days later.
But 8weeks later...i start to feel a bit unwell, and start feeling really bloated and sick all the time. So I take a pregnancy test and yes, it was positive.
So after I've calmed myself down and got my head round it, the next night at work, I pull him to one side and tell him.
I never heard from him for over a week and he practically blanked me at work.
SO when I go for a scan, and given a rough date of conception, I know It is his baby. Which I knew anyway because I hadn't slept with anyone else in nearly 2 months and when I did I'd had the morning after pill!
He finally contacts me and denies it is his child, wants nothing to do with his/her upbringing but wanted a DNA test and if 100% accurate , would pay child support.
This upset me so I told him to shove his money and we cut contact.
We did speak one more time, a week before I had the baby, and I told him he could have his DNA test and I would take the child support but if he didnt want anything to do with the baby that was fine, his choice, his loss.
I text him the day after my son was born and told him weight etc and when did he want to do the test.
"I dont have the money"
I seen him last week driving a brand new car.
Funny eh?
Now my son is just over a month old and Im getting nasty texts saying I'm apparently "bad mouthing" him and running his name into the ground!? No one bar my mum and 2 best friends know who the dad actually is and even at that, they havent told a soul and this I know for certain.
I have texts saying I'm not fit to be a mother and he's going to make my life hell for bad mouthing him. He is getting a court order for a DNA test and going for full custody because I'm "incapable" of looking after a small child, never mind myself.
So he denies his son for 10 MONTHS then this is all out the blue.
I don't understand and dont know what to do?