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by peecee » Tue Jul 02, 2019 10:43 pm
Hi, Spacegirl.
Don’t worry about other PPers at the moment, most people are dipping in and out too, it’s much quieter than it used to be. Let's just think about you for now.
I read your post, but all I could think of to say was “I’m so sorry”.
I never had children, but my sister got pregnant eventually through IVF, then miscarried three months in. Our mum died suddenly shortly afterwards, and our dad became such a problem that my sister and b-i-l couldn’t cope with the additional stress of another round of IVF (yes, it is stressful). I think you are amazingly courageous to keep on with it.
Just being nosy, but did you ever get the polyps sorted out? I had a friend I lost touch with over the years, but before she moved away she was told she had polyps too, and wouldn’t be able to have children. Years later, I hear that she has two children, but I don’t know what sort of medical procedures she went through. So I won’t tell you “there’s always hope”, because that’s a bit pointless and insulting when you’re going through so much pain and not feeling particularly hopeful right now.
Of course you’ve thought about adoption and fostering, are they completely off the table?
But mainly – as Reckoner asked, are you getting support and comfort from your friends and family, and how is your husband coping? Please be gentle with yourselves, both of you.
Lots of love and a virtual hug from all of us. x
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