mum always hurting people
Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2018 8:38 pm
hello every one.
a quick some up. my mum and dad well put it politely not kind to me mentally and physically. my mum left my dad when I was 10 and my middle sister 6years old for late step dad who died 2years ago.
it gets a bit complicated which I won't go in to custody cases and me getting hurt then by all 3 of them. I ran away at 17. to cut it short I'm 33. my mum and step dad had a daughter now 20.
I did raise her for the 1st 5 years of her life as my mum wouldn't. so I am very close to her. I guess I feel protective.
my mum is always negative even before her husband died. she has always been mentally abusive. thinks it is ok. her and my baby sister fight like cat and dog.
every day my mum moans to me about her.
either she never home. never pays for stuff. yes my sister doesnt have a job. has not signed on in hope of getting a job. which yes don't help my mum money wise. I do agree.
ive been trying to courage her with getting work. she has another interview tomorrow. I spent an hour giving her advice. but my mum kept texting me moaning about my sister while on the phone to my sister. to the point I had enough and told my sister.
mum hated the fact my baby sister told me how depressed she feels due to my mum.
I got to the point of telling my mum they both moan to me about each other. they both entitled to take each other as they have feelings. I am feed up being made to feel I have to take sides. It not fair and I won't do it.
I will always try to help but that it.
my mum blaming my sister for all her money problems. but my mum keeps quitting jobs. she left a job she didn't like for another and quit that after 2days as she said they don't do things to her standards.
she always puts herself first. at the moment I'm grieving as I lost a baby at the end of August a 10 years ago. found out this year i will never have kids. my mum so wrapped up to care how I am not coping. instead turning it to a competition of who worst off or who more sick as I was recently in hospital. it to much.
i can't help know more. if you disagree she has ago at you then bad mouths you to the rest of the family. the rest of the family don't want to talk to her.
I feel awful and don't know what to do for the best.
a quick some up. my mum and dad well put it politely not kind to me mentally and physically. my mum left my dad when I was 10 and my middle sister 6years old for late step dad who died 2years ago.
it gets a bit complicated which I won't go in to custody cases and me getting hurt then by all 3 of them. I ran away at 17. to cut it short I'm 33. my mum and step dad had a daughter now 20.
I did raise her for the 1st 5 years of her life as my mum wouldn't. so I am very close to her. I guess I feel protective.
my mum is always negative even before her husband died. she has always been mentally abusive. thinks it is ok. her and my baby sister fight like cat and dog.
every day my mum moans to me about her.
either she never home. never pays for stuff. yes my sister doesnt have a job. has not signed on in hope of getting a job. which yes don't help my mum money wise. I do agree.
ive been trying to courage her with getting work. she has another interview tomorrow. I spent an hour giving her advice. but my mum kept texting me moaning about my sister while on the phone to my sister. to the point I had enough and told my sister.
mum hated the fact my baby sister told me how depressed she feels due to my mum.
I got to the point of telling my mum they both moan to me about each other. they both entitled to take each other as they have feelings. I am feed up being made to feel I have to take sides. It not fair and I won't do it.
I will always try to help but that it.
my mum blaming my sister for all her money problems. but my mum keeps quitting jobs. she left a job she didn't like for another and quit that after 2days as she said they don't do things to her standards.
she always puts herself first. at the moment I'm grieving as I lost a baby at the end of August a 10 years ago. found out this year i will never have kids. my mum so wrapped up to care how I am not coping. instead turning it to a competition of who worst off or who more sick as I was recently in hospital. it to much.
i can't help know more. if you disagree she has ago at you then bad mouths you to the rest of the family. the rest of the family don't want to talk to her.
I feel awful and don't know what to do for the best.