I've never had a good relationship with my family especially my mum, but when I got engaged 2 years ago it went from bad to worse. Firstly when we announced our good news my mums reaction was not how I hoped, her reply was " what made you get engaged" didn't even look at my ring. Then as we started organising the wedding my mum took no interest whatsoever. I took her to try on dresses and the one I chose she said looked "nice on me". I'm a big girl so to hear that was so cutting that I honestly didn't want to just be "nice". In the end I took my mother in law to be and found the dress for me. Every other detail of the wedding I've tried to involve her in and it's like talking to a brick wall apart from her demand of a car to take her to venue. My mum knows nothing about the arrangements and it's upsetting as now I don't even want to get ready at hers on the day and it's 3 months till the day. I never see her as she hasn't even asked where I moved to and only contacts me by text once a month. My dad was given a year to sort a father and daughter song but has since said to sort it myself. My mum paid for our flight and accommodation for honeymoon but didn't want to see what she was paying for
What my question is am I over reacting with this? I just feel they don't care and it is hurting me. I've also had it out with them before and told them how I feel but nothing changes .