Don't know what to do.

[drunkenpyrate]

I am a openly bi woman, and have had a crush on a woman for a while now but never acted on it (I'm very shy). She works at my local coffee shop where I get my takeout coffee every morning (corny I know). We've been talking a lot the past couple of months or so and I was about to pluke up the courge to ask her out. Then me and a friend went in there before a night out, basically my friend liked her as well and got in there before I could. My friend knew I had a crush on her maybe she thought it was a stupid one. My friend is curious and has never been with a woman before. So now my friend keeps coming up to me for advice and I don't know whether to remove myself from the situation because I'm not ashamed to admit that I am jealous, or should I help her. Me and my friend are pretty close and she can't really talk to anyone about this.

[Bel Bel]

I think you should tell your friend you are finding it difficult as you did have a crush on her which she knew about
Tell her honestly that you aren't sure you would be able to be unbiased but hope it all works out for her
I think it was mean of her to do what she did knowing how you feel so you don't owe her the responsibility of now helping her sort this out