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Post by Empathy » Sat Jan 05, 2008 1:33 am

At a party i decided to ignore the world and have the time of my life. I got heavily drunk and as well as my mate and went back to my flat. But in the morning we both woke up to being nude and my best friend who lives next door told us she could here the flat making sexual noises. She took a picture but lost her phone where the picture spread so now theres a pic of us 2getha nude in bed and both our girlfriends dumped us after their friends told them. We didnt even know what happened and were both straight. The only thing now is that he has asked if we could experience it this time sober so he knows that he is not gay but the thought churns my stomache,,, ADVICE PLEASE...appreciated

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Post by HappyGoLucky » Sat Jan 05, 2008 4:32 am

I guess you could just put it down as a drunken mistake. Tell the guy that you don't want to experience it again (I don't think you do!) and that it was all a drunken mistake. It's a shame that your girlfriend has dumped you for that - maybe you could also try explaining to her that both of you were drunk?
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Post by Moxxy » Sat Jan 05, 2008 2:58 pm

It is possible that you didn't do anything sexually with your mate, maybe you both just thought it would be funny to get naked and make sex noises to make people think you were? Because you are both straight with girlfriends it doesn't seem that likely you would do anything with each other.

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Post by lidopig » Sat Jan 05, 2008 3:17 pm

I agree with Moxxy,although I do think your mates suggestion is unusual! Maybe he could be a bit bi-curious? Anyways it hardly sounds a relationship ending experience! Of course girls never kiss and cuddle or have "sleep overs" do they? Yeah right :roll:

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Post by snail » Sat Jan 05, 2008 4:07 pm

I agree as well: if you were both dead drunk I doubt you could have done anything sexually even if you had wanted to! Are you sure your friend next door isn't making up the 'sex noises' to spread mischief or just as a joke? Particularly as the photo she took has conveniently gone missing!

Your male friend's suggestion is unusual to say the least, but perhaps he thinks if he doesn't find out for sure it'll bother him in the back of his mind for the rest of his life. Just tell him you're sure nothing happened, so there's no need to worry.

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Post by Empathy » Sat Jan 05, 2008 6:52 pm

i kno it sounds weird but we both masterbate together thats it when we sometimes watch porn together but thats as far as we would go.

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Post by lidopig » Sat Jan 05, 2008 8:11 pm

HMMM ! :roll:

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Post by Empathy » Sat Jan 05, 2008 8:37 pm

we nt in love or anything like and we dont love eachother but i dont kno its just like bonding but i wudnt have sex

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Post by spacegirl » Sun Jan 06, 2008 9:15 pm

it sounds like what you might think is innocent fun, bonding, whatever, he sees it as a little more. are you sure he's not bi/gay? he's definitely questioing his sexuality anyway.
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Post by Empathy » Sun Jan 06, 2008 10:25 pm

Before i read that some guys bond this way and i find it acceptable i dont know why and so does he. Nah i kno him and he always shows off his body around women but i really dont think hes a bisexual...

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