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Was It A Mistake? Or Is He Just Using Me? HELP!!

Postby Shiloh08 » Mon May 19, 2008 4:02 pm

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Postby Bel Bel » Mon May 19, 2008 4:16 pm

The problem is he will keep doing the same to you becasue you keep letting him
I say do not do anything with him ever again
To go off with your friends twice was heartless and cruel
He is just using you because at the end of the day you are acting like a soft touch
If he tries it on again tell him NO.
You need to keep real clear boundarys and just do things friends do
He will keep messing up your head otherwise
Don't believe him if he tells you he loves you again becasue you have been there and done that and it didn't work and both times he very quickly moved on to so called friends of yours. Thats not what a caring, loving person or a friend does.
To be honest after the way he has treated you I am surprised you can even be freinds with him because I wouldn't be able to
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Postby Tarantula » Tue Jun 17, 2008 12:35 pm

Yeah, don't be a sucker for this guy. Don't be 'old faithful' who he knows he can just go back to whenever it suits him - ie, whenever he's had enough of your 'best friends', who obviously aren't decent friends at all - decent friends would have told him where to stick it.

You focus on being single, and when the time is right, find someone who treats you like you deserve - with respect.

(Oh, and how would he feel about that, I wonder?)
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Re: Was It A Mistake? Or Is He Just Using Me? HELP!!

Postby Aligator » Sun Nov 30, 2008 12:03 pm

my friend was in the same postion some time ago but he was the jerk... so opisit, he went out with three girls and they weir all best friends...
none of them actually made up and my friend got rejected from every1 apart from me and a few in the gang. that was not much help i know but i think wot i'm trying to say is don't break up with ur friends and if u realy don't like him then just exculed him from ur life and don't feel guilty because he has friends...if u do like him then make sure u talk to him. but 1 thing is for sure:

U can never be 'just friends' again.
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