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it started off as an angry text...

Postby musicismalife » Tue Jan 29, 2008 8:36 pm

hi well here's my problem:
my ex dumped me a few weeks ago & i guess i was upset & stuff and then i got over it but then a few days later i found out from a friend (who's also friends with my ex) that my ex just used me basically because he didn't like me in that way to begin with. i sent him this really angry text because well i was angry obviously which had a lot of swearing in it & was in bold. i heard that he was angry too & i hated him. but now a few weeks has passed & ive got over the whole situation & im not angry anymore & i wouldn't mind being friends with him. just friends like because im interested in other guys now. but the problem is i dont really know what to say and one of my friends asked him if he hated me & he said that he didnt know so i really don't know what to do.
can u please give me advice (if uve got any) asap coz it's on my mind lol
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Postby Bel Bel » Wed Jan 30, 2008 10:48 am

I can't imagine why you would wat to be friends with a guy who treated you so badly
If you send a text apologising you are letting him thik it's ok to act that why
I'd get some new freinds and forget about this loser
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Postby Tarantula » Tue Jun 10, 2008 11:02 pm

I think it's important to keep a kind outlook as much as possible. This guy screwed you over, and that wasn't fair - but relationship matters rarely are. Leave him be, if he's friendly and says hello, be friendly and say hello back but don't let it escalate from that.

You had a chapter with him and it's over now, so be amicable, but don't hang on. At all. Rise above whatever drama went on between you.
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Postby lilessexgal » Wed Jun 11, 2008 12:38 pm

i say if you see each other then just say hi or something but other then that dont go out of your way to find him and make conversation not after what he told you friend.
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