Hey well basically, my sister is getting married in just over a month and i’m the maid of honour. But to be honest i just feel a bit down over the whole thing, i know maids of honour traditionally tend to take care of a lot of stuff, in particular the hen night. But to be honest I’ve done nothing, the hen night is pretty basic my sisters choice, Leeds for a night out no fancy dress no strippers etc, so there’s not really much i could organize, i don’t drive so my sister organized who’s driving down, i know none of her friends so couldn’t really plan any surprise and so forth. I did ask if i could be put in charge of the hen night but she said why it’s all sorted, not in a mad way or anything she’d just covered it all. I guess it doesn’t help with me being inexperienced in weddings as well as pretty skint and just 18 years. Also her best friend the other bridesmaid has got put together a contribution of money from everyone on the hen night to book a spa hotel trip thingy, which kinda made me feel jelly too, i mean it should of been me thinking of stuff like that and organising things. Obviously i will be there to help a lot of the day, the bride is staying over at mine with me and my mum and i will be doing her make-up, helping her get dressed and organising everything on the day so she’s calm. Just wondering what else is left for me to make a difference. Pleaseee help
