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by Smiler
Thu Aug 02, 2007 8:07 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: girl from years ago
Replies: 2
Views: 758

She could be embarrassed still - God, I would be if that happened to me! Its probably best not to bring it up again - that will probably make her twice as embarrassed. She could be being genuine - maybe she is tired and means she will see you soon. She obviously likes you, or she shouldn't have gone...
by Smiler
Sun Jul 29, 2007 9:26 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Opinions Needed
Replies: 4
Views: 1299

Providing the guy has respect for you, and doesn't flirt with other women in front of you deliberately , I don't think it should be viewed as a problem. After all, I think everyone has a little bit of a flirtatious nature to them :o) xx
by Smiler
Sun Jul 29, 2007 9:17 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Big Brother 8
Replies: 29
Views: 7497

God, how annoying was Charley?? What a poor excuse for a "woman" - she's such a nasty piece of work!!

I love Carole - She's about the only sane one in there!!
by Smiler
Fri Jul 27, 2007 11:09 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Am I being played?
Replies: 17
Views: 3067

Babe, take a look at my post "what's he playing at" - your situation is ever so similar to mine. You need to forget him now. I went through to notions, thinking he wanted me, and that everything would fall into place, but I ended up getting myself into some deep rubbish! Be careful. Don't ...
by Smiler
Fri Jul 27, 2007 11:03 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: No-strings-attached sex?
Replies: 17
Views: 3682

Due to previous experiences, I have a very old fashioned point of view on sex. I believe sex is something loving couples should do, and not to be viewed as anything less. It is, after all, giving your body to someone - and I don't believe in giving my body to someone who is just using it for their o...
by Smiler
Fri Jun 29, 2007 5:28 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: What was he playing at?
Replies: 3
Views: 985

What was he playing at?

I met a guy about 6 weeks ago at the bar me and my friends go on a Thursday night. I'd noticed this guy before, always staring at me, and trying his luck with me, but each time I gave him the middle finger. That was up till 6 weeks ago, when I thought I'd at least give him the time of day. He told m...
by Smiler
Mon Apr 09, 2007 1:45 pm
Forum: Mental wellbeing
Topic: Coping with a Schizophrenic
Replies: 23
Views: 5086

As harsh and selfish as this sounds, I've stopped all contact with him, I dont want anything to do with him anymore. If he needs help, he has to get it alone. I'm not putting myself in this situation anymore.
by Smiler
Mon Apr 02, 2007 8:56 pm
Forum: Mental wellbeing
Topic: Coping with a Schizophrenic
Replies: 23
Views: 5086

Well, things have gone from bad to worse - he has been persistantly threatening me, and has been round several times in the last few weeks threatening to "slit my throat" - I'm so frightened. I never through he would go this far - I've got to the point where walking out of my front door is...
by Smiler
Wed Mar 14, 2007 6:15 pm
Forum: And the rest...
Topic: can i buy a house or flat?
Replies: 4
Views: 2258

Hey I just want to give you some advise - and that is - stay at home as long as you can. Trust me, I moved out last year, everything went wrong, and I'm now back at Mum's - while paying for the flat still. If and when you move into your own flat, be sure you move in with someone you trust - this is ...
by Smiler
Wed Mar 14, 2007 6:07 pm
Forum: Physical
Topic: Pregnant?
Replies: 6
Views: 1385

The best thing you can do now is get a pregnancy test. It will put your mind at ease. Worrying if you are pregnant or not makes you THINK your pregnant.

Have you spoken to your boyfriend about this? How does he feel?

K x
by Smiler
Wed Mar 14, 2007 5:58 pm
Forum: Mental wellbeing
Topic: Coping with a Schizophrenic
Replies: 23
Views: 5086

All I can do is sit back and hope things work out for the better. I've been seeing alot of him recently, but obviously we're no longer living together. The flat has gone up for sale, there's no way I'd risk living with him again after that episode.

Thank you all. I will keep you posted.

xxx
by Smiler
Fri Mar 09, 2007 8:06 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: help i'm so confused
Replies: 4
Views: 1036

Sleeping with someone you love is a magical thing - but only if the other person loves you back. You should never sleep with someone to try and rekindle what you had, he's getting what he wants, and must realise he's hurting you in the process. If he's met someone else, he's moved on. Please dont sl...
by Smiler
Fri Mar 09, 2007 8:01 pm
Forum: Mental wellbeing
Topic: Coping with a Schizophrenic
Replies: 23
Views: 5086

Thank you all for your kind words and advice. It's made me see a few things: I do want to be with him, but I'm not sure I can cope with the physical drain I will be going through with him. I've been through alot in my childhood, and not sure I'm strong enough to deal with this. Yes, what I encounter...
by Smiler
Thu Mar 08, 2007 5:39 pm
Forum: Mental wellbeing
Topic: Coping with a Schizophrenic
Replies: 23
Views: 5086

I've suggested helping him as a friend, but he wont have it. He says if I'm going to be there for him, I have to be as his Girlfriend and nothing else. He says he can't bare the thought of being just friends when he "loves me". I do think alot of him, but I'm not sure I can actually cope w...
by Smiler
Sat Mar 03, 2007 8:47 pm
Forum: Mental wellbeing
Topic: Coping with a Schizophrenic
Replies: 23
Views: 5086

Thanks for all of your replies. I've since seen him, we've talked about the options he has. He has decided he needs help, so I guess that is the first step - he knows something is wrong. He's definately got a drink problem - I've noticed he is worse than ever when he drinks, so we've agreed he gives...