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by RagDoll
Fri Jun 15, 2012 1:51 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Thank Crunchie It's Friday..
Replies: 107
Views: 32835

Re: Thank Crunchie It's Friday..

Look how much I used to love posting in this thread, ha :lol:

Was quite funny reading some old posts actually - I was rambling about turning 25 and now I'm 27, and about wishing I could move back to my home town, which I have done now :)

What do people have planned then?
by RagDoll
Fri Jun 15, 2012 11:18 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Insecure girlfirend : Advice genuinely needed
Replies: 7
Views: 912

Re: Insecure girlfirend : Advice genuinely needed

Let's be honest - of course she is going to be very, very upset if you do break up. But that doesn't mean you should stay. I always think there is another way of looking at it - basically by staying you are denying her the opportunity to find someone who REALLY wants to be with her (and also denying...
by RagDoll
Fri Jun 15, 2012 10:01 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Insecure girlfirend : Advice genuinely needed
Replies: 7
Views: 912

Re: Insecure girlfirend : Advice genuinely needed

Hi there, I know this may seem a funny way of responding, but I am going to bullet point some of my thoughts as I was reading your post: * I don't think you're being unreasonable regarding the job situation. Given the current economic climate, I can understand that it's not easy to just get a job cl...
by RagDoll
Fri Jun 15, 2012 9:44 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Devestation
Replies: 205
Views: 11763

Re: Devestation

Hiya, I have been following this post for a while now HC, and firstly just want to say that I really feel for you. Break ups are difficult, and this one is even more so since he hasn't completely pulled the cord on the relationship. I have been agreeing with most peoples posts, so haven't commented ...
by RagDoll
Fri May 25, 2012 11:40 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Messed up head
Replies: 6
Views: 846

Re: Messed up head

Hi there, Personally, I think you need to figure out what you want, and then act accordingly. If you just want a friendship with this girl, then I would suggest you stop all the flirty comments and keep a bit of distance - texting all day and night is not something you would usually do with just a f...
by RagDoll
Fri May 04, 2012 3:14 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Why has he behaved like this.
Replies: 7
Views: 997

Re: Why has he behaved like this.

I'm going to be honest with you, since you have only invested a short period of time in this relationship and you're already experiencing these problems, I'd be tempted to get out now. Can I ask how old you both are? I don't mean to be rude, but his behaviour makes him sound quite young. I think you...
by RagDoll
Tue May 01, 2012 10:00 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Are we right for each other?
Replies: 6
Views: 902

Re: Are we right for each other?

I have to admit that when I read your post I kept wondering why you actually married this person if that's the way you feel?! I agree that it sounds like you look down on her. I think some of the frustrations you have mentioned regarding household chores etc. are pretty minor to be honest, so I am j...
by RagDoll
Fri Apr 13, 2012 9:47 am
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Hair today...gone tomorrow
Replies: 14
Views: 5223

Re: Hair today...gone tomorrow

It doesn't bother him I don't think. I guess it's such a gradual change that you just get used to it. His Mum went really grey when she was in her 20s too (but she dyes it blonde so you don't notice). He's still got really thick hair so I suppose that's something! He does keep winding me up by sayin...
by RagDoll
Wed Apr 11, 2012 9:34 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Can you be friends with someone you have a crush on?
Replies: 36
Views: 3210

Re: Can you be friends with someone you have a crush on?

Wow, that really is inappropriate behaviour/amount of contact. I'm not saying you've done anything wrong per say, but imagine how you would feel if you were his girlfriend, and you found out he was spending THAT much time with another girl. I think, as hard as it is when you like him, that you shoul...
by RagDoll
Wed Apr 11, 2012 9:30 am
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Hair today...gone tomorrow
Replies: 14
Views: 5223

Re: Hair today...gone tomorrow

My fiance is going grey. I'd say he's about 60-70% grey now and he's only 30. He's been going grey since I first met him though, which is about 5-6 years ago. I don't mind it at all, it quite suits him! Highland Cow, male baldness runs in the female line of the family, so check out his Grandad's hai...
by RagDoll
Tue Apr 10, 2012 12:23 pm
Forum: Work & Colleagues
Topic: Work Nightmare
Replies: 2
Views: 1926

Work Nightmare

Hi all, This is probably just me venting my spleen more than anything, but if anyone has any advice, then please feel free to input!! Work is really, really getting me down at the moment. I can’t succinctly explain it all, but I will try and highlight the main issues without waffling too much. The m...
by RagDoll
Mon Mar 26, 2012 12:01 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Moving on
Replies: 17
Views: 1643

Re: Moving on

That's great re: you feeling as if you've taken a step forward after having had contact with him. I think now more than ever it's important you stop this contact though - I know it's mega hard to do and you've already asked him to stop, but if he does get in touch again, I'd strongly advise you to i...
by RagDoll
Tue Mar 20, 2012 11:39 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: selfish?
Replies: 6
Views: 864

Re: selfish?

Mostly agree with the others, though I would advise you to just break off the relationship as opposed to going on a break as it sounds like deep down you know it isn't what you want. Also, you could look at this another way re: being selfish... I would argue that it is more selfish staying with him ...
by RagDoll
Thu Mar 08, 2012 4:30 pm
Forum: And the rest...
Topic: Hellish housemate
Replies: 4
Views: 2936

Re: Hellish housemate

Whilst I have every sympathy with you (I also had a hellish housemate when I was at uni - I think it happens a lot!) there isn't much you can do other than stay out of her way as much as you can. I would be as civil as you can be when you do see her, and just distance yourself from her without being...
by RagDoll
Thu Mar 08, 2012 11:33 am
Forum: And the rest...
Topic: Wedding - Men's Suit Hire
Replies: 3
Views: 3237

Re: Wedding - Men's Suit Hire

Thanks. Just for clarification, when I say 'everyone' I mean everyone in the immediate wedding party e.g. both Dad's, best man and ushers (and obviously groom, but it's obvious we'd be paying for that). I think we have decided to just pay for their suit hire since we are asking them to get something...