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by Tarantula
Wed Oct 24, 2007 11:19 pm
Forum: Mental wellbeing
Topic: Memories, mental scars and slippery slopes
Replies: 3
Views: 834

Memories, mental scars and slippery slopes

... It's worth mentioning that this is my second PP account, on my first my name was 'Phoenix', for anyone who read my stuff.... Same person! I'm nearly 17. I've just started college. 2 years ago this Christmas is when I first disclosed about my (biological) father sexually abusing me, for as long a...
by Tarantula
Mon Oct 22, 2007 8:40 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Unfaithful
Replies: 5
Views: 876

Ahhh, how refreshing ...! Thanks! =)
by Tarantula
Sun Oct 21, 2007 7:11 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: about a guy....
Replies: 2
Views: 527

Why would it be complicated if he did like you...? It'll be so much easier to get over him if there's some sort of conclusion, as a part of you is wondering 'hmmm, now, what if?' I say, take the bull by the horns and flirt =) totally harmless, right? If he reciprocates then great, if not then, you k...
by Tarantula
Sun Oct 21, 2007 7:04 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Unfaithful
Replies: 5
Views: 876

Unfaithful

Well, this is a twist in the plot. I'm the one who thinks that cheating is the worst thing you can do. Guess what I just did. My boyfriend of 4 months is coming back from holiday on thursday (refer to my article - kindest way to end a relationship). But I've decided I'm going to end it. AFTER I deci...
by Tarantula
Sun Oct 21, 2007 6:56 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: don't know what to do
Replies: 5
Views: 801

It is better to not be in a relationship than to be in one without trust. Don't hold on just 'cos it's what you're used to - and three years is a very long time. This isn't going to change and you will always have suspicions from now on. That is why cheating is the ultimate relationship-killer, beca...
by Tarantula
Tue Oct 16, 2007 10:47 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Kindest way to end a relationship
Replies: 3
Views: 671

Kindest way to end a relationship

Hi As the title implies, I am going to end my relationship of 4 months with a guy who thinks the world of me. : / He's on holiday at the moment and will be back next week. He thinks everything is fine. He's going to be devastated. But I've let that be the reason to stay with him for long enough. It'...
by Tarantula
Sat Oct 06, 2007 10:44 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: My guy gorps tooooo much
Replies: 17
Views: 2258

Oh my word! He is acting like a disrespectful careless indifferent unappreciative git. But don't do the same thing back to him... Tit for tat is NEVER the way to go with relationships, it provides temporary satisfaction perhaps but in the long run it can only escalate the problem. Communication is k...
by Tarantula
Sat Oct 06, 2007 10:28 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: problems with bisexual ex wife
Replies: 7
Views: 1034

The best thing you can do is be the mature one in seeing that this isn't about your failed relationship, but about your child. She is using him/her as a springboard upon which to peeve you off, knowing that you're bound to see her from time to time and bringing her new partner along to put on displa...
by Tarantula
Sat Oct 06, 2007 10:20 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: straight guy who likes kissing guys any advice
Replies: 7
Views: 2888

Accept that you're not entirely straight. And that's fine.
by Tarantula
Sat Oct 06, 2007 10:18 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: My GF has dumped me... But... I want her back
Replies: 2
Views: 581

Yes. If there's any hope for the saving of your relationship then it lies in you convincing her beyond reasonable doubt that you can make it work, and that you're sorry for being a berk previously - you mentioned nothing of supporting her through her grandad's death, I noticed. You could always do w...
by Tarantula
Mon Sep 17, 2007 8:45 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: I threw it away
Replies: 1
Views: 551

I threw it away

This will sound selfish but bear with me. The other night I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months, for no fault of his own... I just wanted to be single again. And now that I am, I miss him so much, feel lost without him... He's in the phase of insisting he'll always love me no matter what. But I'v...
by Tarantula
Sun Sep 16, 2007 10:44 pm
Forum: Cheer me up!
Topic: I've had an Epiphany
Replies: 1
Views: 1196

I've had an Epiphany

Last night I broke up with Josh, the best boy in the universe, for indifferent reasons to do with me wanting to be single, he didn't even do anything wrong and couldn't've done more to make our relationship better. 24 hours later and I regret it so much, but I will not simply bounce back, 'cos if I ...
by Tarantula
Sat Sep 08, 2007 7:46 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: In too deep..!!
Replies: 1
Views: 542

In too deep..!!

HELP I'm 16, I've been with my bf for 3 months, lately it's been on a lowpoint and we keep having little arguments. And meanwhile, typically, I've met someone today in person who I've only been talking to over msn for a few months, he said I was hot, and I felt guilty thinking the same about him and...