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by RagDoll
Wed Jan 23, 2013 4:19 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: I have feelings for another guy and the guilt is killing me.
Replies: 13
Views: 2121

Re: I have feelings for another guy and the guilt is killing

I agree with Bel Bel on this one. I also have to admit that I think you're being a bit unfair about the whole tummy trouble. It sounds like you have more issue with it than him, which probably explains why he hasn't done much about it. I get that it's not healthy, but you admitted yourself that he's...
by RagDoll
Wed Dec 19, 2012 1:48 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Christmas - Happy time or....
Replies: 4
Views: 2440

Christmas - Happy time or....

Hi all, I wondered whether people consider Christmas a happy time, or a tad depressing? My train was delayed yesterday and I was feeling in a bit of a huff about it until it was announced that someone had 'been hit by a train' further down the line. When I mentioned this awful news to my hub, he sai...
by RagDoll
Tue Dec 04, 2012 3:08 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Why is female sexuality still sneered at?
Replies: 4
Views: 2691

Re: Why is female sexuality still sneered at?

I think, for some people, and certainly for myself, people only want that kind of physical contact/intimacy with someone that they're also emotionally involved with/connected to. That can apply to both men and women (and obviously that's the case for Bel Bel's husband) so it is not just something th...
by RagDoll
Tue Dec 04, 2012 2:54 pm
Forum: School, College & University
Topic: Going to University later in life
Replies: 4
Views: 1837

Re: Going to University later in life

Know you posted this a little while ago Rufio, but my advice would be to decide what career/field you want to get into first, based upon your interests and skills, then if you know you'll need a degree to do the job, go for it. I think you need to figure out what your ultimate goal is, and then work...
by RagDoll
Tue Nov 20, 2012 1:36 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Do I leave him tonight?
Replies: 10
Views: 1518

Re: Do I leave him tonight?

My first question is why do you need to make this decision today? You've been together for 6 years, so give yourself time to consider everything - don't make a rash decision, or do something just to try and provoke a reaction. I know you said that he keeps saying he wants to get married, but never a...
by RagDoll
Thu Nov 08, 2012 3:34 pm
Forum: Friends
Topic: Feel abandoned by "best friend"
Replies: 6
Views: 3479

Re: Feel abandoned by "best friend"

I can't bare even thinking about her, never mind speak to her. What should I do? I really don't think I can speak to her about it, I feel so betrayed. I totally sympathise and understand why you're a bit hurt and annoyed by this, but I can't help but feel that there is some underlying issue here - ...
by RagDoll
Fri Oct 12, 2012 1:44 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Should I rock the boat?
Replies: 4
Views: 812

Re: Should I rock the boat?

This is such a tough one. In a way I think the messages he was sending her were incriminating - not that he said anything that was out and out wrong, but he obviously lied to you about the frequency and content of these messages. If I understand correctly, at the point of him sending these messages ...
by RagDoll
Thu Oct 04, 2012 2:26 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Will we ever be official or am I wasting my time?
Replies: 8
Views: 1342

Re: Will we ever be official or am I wasting my time?

Sorry but I don't have time for a proper response, however, just quickly wanted to say that I definitely think you need to talk to him. At the moment he's really got the best of both worlds. It sounds like he could be playing up the whole 'I've been so hurt in the past' in order to use it as an excu...
by RagDoll
Wed Oct 03, 2012 11:07 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: What is wrong with me??
Replies: 93
Views: 9326

Re: What is wrong with me??

To be fair a lot of your son's attitude could be put down to nothing more than his age - when I was 14 all I wanted to do was hang around with my mates and I probably wouldn't have admitted to wanting to spend anytime with my parents either. It would be more worrying if he was a different person wit...
by RagDoll
Tue Oct 02, 2012 9:22 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Confused about what to do..
Replies: 28
Views: 3390

Re: Confused about what to do..

I think as someone else said, you really need to decide whether you can make it work in conjunction with your girlfriend. There are obviously underlying issues/problems and whether you can move past this depends on whether they can be worked on and resolved. Of course, it also depends on how you fee...
by RagDoll
Mon Oct 01, 2012 9:38 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Confused about what to do..
Replies: 28
Views: 3390

Re: Confused about what to do..

Sorry if this comment is a bit late in the day if you've already confronted her... but without meaning to be too crude, sperm does have a rather distinctive smell! I think it'd be fairly obvious from the odour whether it was that, or not.
by RagDoll
Wed Sep 26, 2012 2:29 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Ex Boyfriend Troubles
Replies: 12
Views: 1445

Re: Ex Boyfriend Troubles

I agree you should go to your friends wedding. She's the one whose decided to take the 'risk' of inviting you both. If your ex chooses to act like an idiot, well, that's his problem. As long as you go and act like an adult and don't be rude to him... well, what more could you do. Just stay out of hi...
by RagDoll
Mon Sep 24, 2012 1:53 pm
Forum: Mental wellbeing
Topic: Worried about my husband
Replies: 5
Views: 2549

Re: Worried about my husband

I know this might sound harsh, but it is not your responsibility to worry about your husband's well being anymore. Obviously I understand why you're concerned, as it's only natural having spent so much of your life with someone, but in reality there is very little you can do. Also, I think you need ...
by RagDoll
Fri Sep 21, 2012 3:31 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Getting Wed...
Replies: 31
Views: 14069

Re: Getting Wed...

Oh yey! I am so glad you like them :D

It's so nice to hear positive things about the pics. I brought them into work and was a bit underwhelmed by the response to be honest!! They're probably just bored to tears with hearing about our wedding though, haha.
by RagDoll
Fri Sep 21, 2012 1:25 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Getting Wed...
Replies: 31
Views: 14069

Re: Getting Wed...

hope this works: