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by highlandcow
Fri Jun 23, 2017 10:06 pm
Forum: Physical
Topic: The loneliness of miscarriage and infertility
Replies: 3
Views: 2639

Re: The loneliness of miscarriage and infertility

Oh spacegirl. I cried reading this. You're right, we don't talk about it enough. As with a lot of so-called 'women's problems' it's a subject that gets swept under the rug too often. I suspect that more people have suffered in this way than admit it. The only person I've ever talked to about miscarr...
by highlandcow
Fri Jun 23, 2017 9:57 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: IS IT ME ?????? plz help!!!!!!!
Replies: 29
Views: 10564

Re: IS IT ME ?????? plz help!!!!!!!

Do people that do this hide it to begin with??? I just don't understand how I couldn't c it before ??? I couldn't see this in my ex at first either. He was lovely at first, but over time he became more and more controlling (even logging into my PP account to see what I'd been writing about him!) Ev...
by highlandcow
Fri Jun 23, 2017 9:46 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: IS IT ME ?????? plz help!!!!!!!
Replies: 29
Views: 10564

Re: IS IT ME ?????? plz help!!!!!!!

Ah pet, I've just caught up with you here. The others are right, you know what you need to do. It wil be so HARD but imagine how good it will eventually feel to be free of him. To be able to spend your money how you want, to be able to see your friends and family and be allowed to grieve for your Da...
by highlandcow
Fri Jun 23, 2017 9:29 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Dumped out of the blue with no real reason
Replies: 48
Views: 15156

Re: Dumped out of the blue with no real reason

Anyway... today I got the job! At last something good has happened. Jus felt so weird to have this news and not tell her straight away. That's great news! Well done! =D> =D> =D> =D> I know it's odd not to be in contact with her to tell her, but just think, you did that WITHOUT her! I take my hat of...
by highlandcow
Wed Jun 21, 2017 11:41 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Should i expose?
Replies: 8
Views: 3003

Re: Should i expose?

Like David I do sympathise massively as I know this can't be easy for you, but it really won't be worth your time outing them at work. What good will it do you? It might make you feel better for a minute or too as a revenge thing, but it won't help, espeacially as you want to get her back.
by highlandcow
Wed Jun 21, 2017 11:39 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Dumped out of the blue with no real reason
Replies: 48
Views: 15156

Re: Dumped out of the blue with no real reason

How are you getting on? Is today your interview?
by highlandcow
Wed Jun 21, 2017 11:38 am
Forum: Friends
Topic: Mixed signals
Replies: 8
Views: 2734

Re: Mixed signals

Hi I think you're doing the right thing in just letting things happen organically. I personally wouldn't risk asking outright just yet. I would excerise caution though and make sure that if something were to happen that a relationship is what you both really want. The only reason I say this is becau...
by highlandcow
Wed Jun 21, 2017 11:28 am
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Anyone remember me?
Replies: 12
Views: 7170

Re: Anyone remember me?

Hey spacegirl! :D Glad to see you're still here too!
by highlandcow
Sun Jun 18, 2017 4:12 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Wife is getting out of shape, what can/should I do?
Replies: 12
Views: 5375

Re: Wife is getting out of shape, what can/should I do?

Tarantula wrote:surprised HLC didn't mention that as she is a cow and cows have feelings and want to live!
I almost took offence there, Tarantula! :lol: :lol:

Meatless Mondays are a good idea though.
by highlandcow
Sun Jun 18, 2017 4:10 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Dumped out of the blue with no real reason
Replies: 48
Views: 15156

Re: Dumped out of the blue with no real reason

Snail is right. Its not been long and it will take a good while yet until you feel better. But you will. I know that you will be desperatley wanting to fast-track this whole thing, and to wake up tomorrow morning and feel better but sadly, it takes ages for these things to start feeling better. It t...
by highlandcow
Sun Jun 18, 2017 3:49 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Fed up :(
Replies: 5
Views: 1587

Re: Fed up :(

Hi Chipster, Jujst read through you post and it looks like others have come to the same conclusion that I have - she does indeed sound like she's depressed. To be quite honest its got to the stage where I just dont want to be with her any more, its past the stage of sorting things out I just want it...
by highlandcow
Sun Jun 18, 2017 3:35 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: I messed up.. Big time.
Replies: 2
Views: 979

Re: I messed up.. Big time.

most girls would have said get lost I've got to be honest and say that I probably would have done! But then, maybe I'm not as trusting... Agree with David, she will have much higher expectations this time. You have to be really sure you know what you want this time and that you're not just wanting ...
by highlandcow
Thu Jun 15, 2017 12:57 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: People think I shouldn't be with my boyfriend...
Replies: 10
Views: 4718

Re: People think I shouldn't be with my boyfriend...

MissNikki90 wrote:It's more than 75%, just at the time of writing I was that confused and angry that it sounded about right
Fair enough - we've all done that!

Hope he gets on OK. Let us know how you're getting on if you can.
by highlandcow
Thu Jun 15, 2017 12:56 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: CONFUSED!!!!!
Replies: 22
Views: 5900

Re: CONFUSED!!!!!

Hi pet, I'm so glad you've updated - I was worried (maternity leave madness!) And I'm very glad that you've told him everything and that he was understanding. I do think that him getting a job will go a long way towards his mental health. Being at home all day is not good for you (a fact I know all ...
by highlandcow
Thu Jun 15, 2017 12:45 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Dumped out of the blue with no real reason
Replies: 48
Views: 15156

Re: Dumped out of the blue with no real reason

PS - sorry for any spelling errors. I had to get up to pop my son's dummy back in his mouth about 10 times while I was writing that! :roll: