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by reckoner
Sat Nov 21, 2020 6:02 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Dating! How does this work again?!
Replies: 4
Views: 115

Re: Dating! How does this work again?!

I’ve been very open with my uncertainty and finding the speed/intensity hard. You're not actually responsible for his feelings - being open and honest with him about yours is all you can do. That's great if he's also happy seeing how this goes. I have a feeling that his intensity and my lack of it ...
by reckoner
Sun Nov 15, 2020 9:15 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Dating! How does this work again?!
Replies: 4
Views: 115

Re: Dating! How does this work again?!

Nice to see you again! I can’t work out if im just enjoying the novelty of being with someone or if I really like him. Ordinarily, I'd say that if you did really like him, you wouldn't be wondering, you'd know already. But you say "It could be the usual avoidant attachment style showing itself" so i...
by reckoner
Wed Nov 11, 2020 2:13 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Now What?
Replies: 8
Views: 291

Re: Now What?

For the first time after i saw them in bed i took actions ... I blocked her and made sure we did not see each other. Yes, but then you wrote to her to say that you "loved her and wanted her", as if it's OK and you forgive her. Anyway, it's good if you know now that you don't feel that way anymore a...
by reckoner
Tue Nov 10, 2020 10:01 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Now What?
Replies: 8
Views: 291

Re: Now What?

It's a very difficult time for you when you are worried about your child and have even less access to him/her than usual because of lockdown. But it's also an opportunity to distance yourself from the mother so that your relationship with her is to take care of your child only. Children need stabili...
by reckoner
Mon Sep 21, 2020 6:07 pm
Forum: Siblings
Topic: Sisters
Replies: 1
Views: 436

Re: Sisters

I'm really sorry to hear of your mother's passing, that's a terrible loss. I still feel angry and don't think I'll ever forgive them for this. Your mother's death may not have been a surprise, but it's still a shock. You all knew the end was coming so you were prepared for the fact that she was dyin...
by reckoner
Tue Aug 11, 2020 11:53 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Still going on
Replies: 5
Views: 948

Re: Still going on

he is thinking of you, and using any excuse to text you I agree. Lust, I think you should consider how the pattern of contact with this guy compares with a genuinely platonic friend: Do they contact you this frequently? Would you have met them through a dating app? Would you have had sexual relatio...
by reckoner
Fri Jul 17, 2020 11:30 am
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Anyone?
Replies: 7
Views: 1300

Re: Anyone?

You are quickly becoming my new PP best friend!! \:D/ I have an 11 year old boy who is starting secondary school in September (no idea how that happened!!) Seriously, where does the time go? One day, maybe we'll find 200 years down the back of the sofa. My eldest starts primary in September. At lea...
by reckoner
Wed Jul 15, 2020 1:26 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Anyone?
Replies: 7
Views: 1300

Re: Anyone?

If you listen veeeerrrrry carefully, you can hear an echo! Or is it the sea? Not sure but, yes, it is definitely quiet in here. I like to think of it as a pint of Guinness, worth the wait, haha. We're here, though! nothing to stop us from a chinwag, maybe someone will join in, you never know! So you...
by reckoner
Wed Jul 15, 2020 1:18 pm
Forum: Parents
Topic: What do I do?
Replies: 2
Views: 979

Re: What do I do?

Although I can understand why you don't want to keep this information secret from your sister, this seems like game-playing by your mother. From what you've told us about your mother both in this post and before, I suspect she is using this very small bit of information about finding your stepbrothe...
by reckoner
Sun Jul 12, 2020 3:39 pm
Forum: Forum Support
Topic: Can't access old account
Replies: 8
Views: 2115

Re: Can't access old account

You are most welcome :D xx
by reckoner
Thu Jul 09, 2020 9:48 pm
Forum: Forum Support
Topic: Can't access old account
Replies: 8
Views: 2115

Re: Can't access old account

Well Smiler, I can certainly sort this out for you! 8)

I'll PM you so we can sort out the details and have you back up and running with your previous account. Then you can tell us what you've been up to! :D
by reckoner
Thu Jul 09, 2020 4:25 pm
Forum: Forum Support
Topic: Can't access old account
Replies: 8
Views: 2115

Re: Can't access old account

It is much quieter here and not the hang out it used to be. We still get new posters and still have regular members to reply, but I think they'll be new names to you. I expect you remember Snail and peecee, the other admins still here? I'm the least technically proficient of the admins unfortunately...
by reckoner
Wed Jul 08, 2020 4:46 pm
Forum: Forum Support
Topic: Can't access old account
Replies: 8
Views: 2115

Re: Can't access old account

Welcome back! I've found your old account and it looks like I was arriving here just as you were leaving but it's great to see you back! My fellow admins will no doubt remember you. I should be able to help you, but could I check: are you seeking to use your old account and reset your password with ...
by reckoner
Wed Apr 29, 2020 7:37 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Confused is not the word.
Replies: 4
Views: 1847

Re: Confused is not the word.

So: First Lady's husband still expects a New Year kiss from her; she would have gone on holiday with him if he'd wanted to (she says she wishes you'd gone with her, but not enough to have actually asked you); he still wants her to prioritise him over her friends; she hasn't told the kids she's 'sepa...
by reckoner
Sat Mar 14, 2020 5:11 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Infatuation
Replies: 6
Views: 1474

Re: Infatuation

It is just 'harmless' flirting altho sometimes I think it isn't? Harmless flirting is when you exchange a bit of banter, have a bit of a giggle and think nothing more of it. It doesn't make you feel anxious and uncomfortable or result in an invitation to dinner. Inviting you for a quick coffee is o...