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by saramidnite
Fri Jul 10, 2020 2:43 pm
Forum: Parents
Topic: What do I do?
Replies: 0
Views: 24

What do I do?

Ok quick some up. My mum left my dad 22+ years ago for late stepdad and had my baby sister. Both my mum dad and stepdad are abusive people. 4 years ago my stepdad died. Over last few years my middle sister and me have bonded. We were never close due to my parents fighting over custody of her. I was ...
by saramidnite
Sun Jun 16, 2019 6:23 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: I feel lied to
Replies: 1
Views: 829

I feel lied to

me and my partner have been together almost 11years. I've slowly come to terms we wont have kids. as he dont want them. but now I found out he doesnt want to marry me. maybe it would of been easier to discuss with him if wasnt for the fact I found out at his aunties wake earlier today. some one aske...
by saramidnite
Sat Feb 23, 2019 4:33 pm
Forum: Siblings
Topic: sister in a unstable relationship and mum making things worst
Replies: 1
Views: 1096

sister in a unstable relationship and mum making things worst

my baby sisters I would say I was close to. she turned 21 last weekend. it was wonderful meeting up with family to celebrate. sadly 2 days later at my grannies she and her boyfriend argued and she was so horrible to him. saying it was over. the next day I left babysitting a 21 and 23year who then ar...
by saramidnite
Wed Aug 29, 2018 8:34 am
Forum: Parents
Topic: mum always hurting people
Replies: 3
Views: 2787

Re: mum always hurting people

thank you. I do agree I shouldn't of told my sister what the texts said I am not good at handling my emotions part of it is due to my Austin so I can react if I'm up set. I will take your advice and from now on be quite. I will listen and say I have already discussed this with you. when she is horri...
by saramidnite
Fri Aug 24, 2018 8:38 pm
Forum: Parents
Topic: mum always hurting people
Replies: 3
Views: 2787

mum always hurting people

hello every one. a quick some up. my mum and dad well put it politely not kind to me mentally and physically. my mum left my dad when I was 10 and my middle sister 6years old for late step dad who died 2years ago. it gets a bit complicated which I won't go in to custody cases and me getting hurt the...
by saramidnite
Fri Jul 20, 2018 11:42 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: boyfriend's family issues
Replies: 6
Views: 1831

Re: boyfriend's family issues

thank you for replying
by saramidnite
Sun Jul 15, 2018 5:34 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: boyfriend's family issues
Replies: 6
Views: 1831

Re: boyfriend's family issues

thank you for your replies. I am coming to terms with not being a mum. my bf changed him mind a few times over the years so to me it is misleading. but I have forgiven him. I will in time hopefully be able to feel more comfortable talking to his family about it. I have told my mum and Nan who took i...
by saramidnite
Fri Jul 13, 2018 1:39 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: boyfriend's family issues
Replies: 6
Views: 1831

boyfriend's family issues

hello I am not sure where to begin. I have been with my bf 10yers almost. I am happy. I would happily spend the rest of my life with him. but he don't want kids. I have a low chance due to medical reasons. so it not bad thing as I've always had this fear id meelt some one and they dump me for some 1...
by saramidnite
Mon Mar 05, 2018 6:15 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: family causing issues.
Replies: 5
Views: 1544

Re: family causing issues.

thank you for your advice. my sister and nan told her to back off today. she was lying today about me when i visited my other grandparents. i found out when i got back. i was very upset. to the point i cried. but my nan (her mum) pulled her up on it as she knew she lied. she stormed out of the flat....
by saramidnite
Sun Mar 04, 2018 1:20 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: family causing issues.
Replies: 5
Views: 1544

family causing issues.

hi ok i not sure if to put this in this group topic or family. me and my boyfriend have been together over 9 years. i love him. i wouldnt change anything. i am very happy. i am currently visiting family. yes i will admit my boyfriend is not my normal type. but i do believe that you can fall in love ...
by saramidnite
Fri Sep 29, 2017 8:23 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Am i being unreasonable
Replies: 3
Views: 1229

Am i being unreasonable

Hello I not sure not to feel at the moment. I know my boyfriend hates social things which i am fine with and understand. I end up having to visit my family on my own for occasions and family parties. We have been together 8 and half years. My cousin i grew up with as they lived close to my home when...
by saramidnite
Sat Apr 22, 2017 12:19 am
Forum: Children
Topic: Should i ask him to talk to his parents
Replies: 1
Views: 1444

Should i ask him to talk to his parents

Hello I was wondering if any one could give me sone advice. Ive been with my bf for 8 years. I am very happy I know things havent always been easy due to illness or me being bullied at my last job. He told me at the begining i was the only girl he wanted to marry and have kids with. Showered me with...
by saramidnite
Thu Feb 23, 2017 5:20 pm
Forum: Children
Topic: Stuck between a rock and a hard place
Replies: 1
Views: 1422

Stuck between a rock and a hard place

Hello everyone I wasnt sure which one i should write this in. As it more to do with my sister and my mum not getting on. I have two sisters R is 19 and L is 28. They dont get on either. My main issue is R use to be sweet and a kind girl. Then the last couple of years she has become lazy. Selfish and...
by saramidnite
Sun Sep 25, 2016 8:57 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Unsure how to feel
Replies: 4
Views: 1675

Re: Unsure how to feel

Thank you every one. He has started to make a bit of an effort and we changing the date so hopefully he now will be going.
by saramidnite
Sun Sep 18, 2016 11:21 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Unsure how to feel
Replies: 4
Views: 1675

Unsure how to feel

Hello I am not sure how i should be feeling. I lost my stepdad last week. He was on hoilday So the furneal sadly wont be till mid october. My boyfriend told his mum he wont go as he lost his granny the same week a few years ago. I do respect that. But i was there for him when he lost his granny. I t...