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by Tarantula
Fri Feb 14, 2020 9:58 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Will I ever get over it?
Replies: 3
Views: 174

Re: Will I ever get over it?

Hey there I agree with reckoner's very thoughtful input, and would like to add a practical suggestion: Have you thought about writing him a letter, or even meeting in person? I know that nothing quite eats you up inside like things left unsaid, and at this point, what have you to lose? Of course, su...
by Tarantula
Fri Jan 17, 2020 1:11 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Break up / reconciliation?
Replies: 3
Views: 159

Re: Break up / reconciliation?

She's a liar and you should tell her ex's poor girlfriend so that she isn't wasting more time. But that would require some guts. I don't know if you have them? Of course she and her ex got busy whilst on holiday - to believe anything else would be horribly naive. Think about it. They were together b...
by Tarantula
Sat Jan 04, 2020 11:04 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Do i walk away??
Replies: 3
Views: 285

Re: Do i walk away??

Hmmmm sounds pretty intense. I don't think he's done anything wrong, but he seems to have trust issues and perhaps it's all moving too quickly for him. I know you meant that comment flippantly, but if he has been cheated on in the past then it would've come across as 'if you don't want me, I'll go o...
by Tarantula
Mon Nov 11, 2019 5:00 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: I've slept with someone else while on a break!
Replies: 6
Views: 546

Re: I've slept with someone else while on a break!

Hey ^^ Lol so direct, boulding. But I agree. You say it's going to take 'a lot of work' before you trust him again... but you're still seeing him, giving him your time and possibly more. As far as he's concerned, it's back on. You can say what you want to him about how you don't trust him, but the v...
by Tarantula
Sun Nov 10, 2019 1:53 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: I've slept with someone else while on a break!
Replies: 6
Views: 546

Re: I've slept with someone else while on a break!

Hi there Whoa, breathe, lady! You remind me of me when I was your age... ten years ago, lol. With that in mind, here are my thoughts: - Watch the alcohol. You don't mention it but I assume when you're going out, you're getting drunk and all that which is fine, having fun, it's okay... so long as you...
by Tarantula
Mon Oct 21, 2019 2:11 pm
Forum: Siblings
Topic: Worried about my brother
Replies: 9
Views: 3663

Re: Worried about my brother

Thanks spacegirl. You're absolutely right, of course. Well, we eventually got back in touch. It wasn't really the kind of reconciliation I was secretly hoping for, but he ended up visiting me here for a few days, which passed peacefully. I made sure my partner was around as much as possible. Since t...
by Tarantula
Mon Oct 14, 2019 8:09 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Break Up
Replies: 5
Views: 540

Re: Break Up

Hey Claire Yeah, I think it's definitely time to move on with your head held high. At least he's being honest, and since you spent such a huge chunk of your lives together, I figure he's not a bad guy? Perhaps an amicable split is possible. It sounds like you want marriage and kids, but it doesn't s...
by Tarantula
Wed Oct 02, 2019 1:48 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Based on this story, should I end things with my wife? Long!
Replies: 2
Views: 444

Re: Based on this story, should I end things with my wife? Long!

Hi Paul Ah man I feel so bad for you. What a rubbish situation. What a rubbish wife. Yeah basically of course she's met him on that occasion and probably others by now, if they've been messaging for months. Her reaction is incredibly cold-hearted and demonstrates a total lack of empathy for what she...
by Tarantula
Mon Sep 16, 2019 1:50 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Am I wrong
Replies: 2
Views: 372

Re: Am I wrong

Hi southpaw Oh, no! This sounds awful. Not wanting sex is one thing, but it sounds like they don't want to even come near you? Why is that? You don't have to be horny to enjoy a cuddle. So all I can think is that they must be having an affair. Combined with what you've said about mobile phone obsess...
by Tarantula
Wed Aug 14, 2019 11:49 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Am I being unreasonable?
Replies: 3
Views: 608

Re: Am I being unreasonable?

Thanks Dave I'm a bit calmer about it now. Just needed to vent. We are mostly on the same page with money, but I think the venue is worth splashing a bit out on, and we seem to be clashing on that. I mean, I couldn't care less about 'nice tablecloths', fancy invites or any of that showy rubbish what...
by Tarantula
Sun Aug 11, 2019 5:09 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Am I being unreasonable?
Replies: 3
Views: 608

Am I being unreasonable?

Hi all I want some honest opinions on the subject of money. My partner and I are at the very start of planning our wedding, despite being engaged since Christmas, but for a number of reasons haven't done anything (and if I don't bring it up, he won't). His family are now asking questions and we've s...
by Tarantula
Wed Jul 17, 2019 1:47 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Finally out!!!!
Replies: 8
Views: 1059

Re: Finally out!!!!

So... what fully happened?

If you don't reply, I'll assume you got back together. :p xx

(But of course I really hope you stayed strong when collecting your stuff)
by Tarantula
Thu Jun 13, 2019 12:24 pm
Forum: Siblings
Topic: Worried about my brother
Replies: 9
Views: 3663

Re: Worried about my brother

Hi everyone An update. Things have gotten worse. Well, they basically carried on the way they were, with me feeling increasingly run down, exhausted from all his problems and him being unable to deal with anything, requiring long talks at every stage, constant complaining about people etc. In Februa...
by Tarantula
Tue Apr 09, 2019 8:04 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Boyfriend loves drugs...
Replies: 2
Views: 769

Re: Boyfriend loves drugs...

I think this isn't going to work out. I think you'll keep going back and forth in your mind about it, bring it up with him, get shut down, make excuses for his poor behaviour, write on a different forum about the same thing, tear your hair out some more, convince yourself that it's not so bad, reali...
by Tarantula
Wed Dec 12, 2018 5:15 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Relationship Advice
Replies: 1
Views: 831

Re: Relationship Advice

It's the second one, Simon. I'm sorry to have to tell you so clearly, but I feel 100% sure that she's done a cheating with somebody at some point. The fact that she's even entertaining rumours about her sha-ing somebody else, like it's all a big game... the fact that her response was 'if I was seein...