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by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Mon Jan 06, 2020 1:43 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Do i walk away??
Replies: 3
Views: 482

Re: Do i walk away??

Just an update!! Everything appears to be back on track. He has apologised & realised he has to learn to trust again. We laughed together so much last night, so much more than ever before :)
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Sun Jan 05, 2020 8:58 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Do i walk away??
Replies: 3
Views: 482

Re: Do i walk away??

Hey thank you for your reply . I totally understand everything you are saying . To be honest I have had time to think and yeah maybe i am realising just how difficult it is to have Male friends while dating. But I have always got on way better with guys and do have friends so it's a difficult one. W...
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Fri Jan 03, 2020 1:40 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Do i walk away??
Replies: 3
Views: 482

Do i walk away??

Hey guys In need of some advice. Finally decided to get myself into the dating game again (not expecting much) Spoke to few different guys (online) but one stood out and we decided to meet up. I wasn't really that excited about it but as it turns out it was the most amazing date I have ever had (kin...
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Thu Oct 17, 2019 11:32 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Is he normal?
Replies: 5
Views: 926

Re: Is he normal?

Hi This is not normal, this is very controlling & manipulative behaviour. I myself have just left a relationship very similar. I would get out before it gets messy because people like this don't change. It took me 2 years to get out, even though I knew I should, don't make the same mistake. Have a l...
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Thu Oct 17, 2019 10:52 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Is this cheating?
Replies: 2
Views: 670

Re: Is this cheating?

Hi Skylunalan I'm really sorry to read about your problem your having. This of course isn't technically "physical cheating" but in my book its disgusting & down right disrespectful towards you. This is not on. She had planned to meet to cheat!!!!! She may as well have. She is using this not cheating...
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Wed Oct 16, 2019 9:05 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Break Up
Replies: 5
Views: 732

Re: Break Up

Hi Claire You are most welcome. You have hit the nail on the head. You do need to think about what makes you happy. We do sacrifice our happiness all to often to please others. While this is a nice trait, it does not work as both parties end up unhappy. Your other half will feel your unhappiness and...
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Tue Oct 15, 2019 3:45 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Break Up
Replies: 5
Views: 732

Re: Break Up

Hi Claire I agree totally agree with Tarantula. If you are not happy, you need to go. Yes it is really difficult and way more easier said than done but you can do it. I have just came out an emotionally abusive, manipulative & controlling relationship. It took me 2 years really & yeah It was really ...
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Thu Sep 12, 2019 4:51 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Finally out!!!!
Replies: 8
Views: 1337

Re: Finally out!!!!

Hi Snail... Thank you so much. Honestly I sat and re-read everyone's advice on my previous post and it all makes so so much more sense now that I can see clearly. For this first time in so long I am relaxed, my skin has cleared up & I feel content. I appreciate so much the help this forum has given ...
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Thu Sep 12, 2019 8:50 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Finally out!!!!
Replies: 8
Views: 1337

Re: Finally out!!!!

I cant lie though, the guilt of leaving the boys without saying goodbye is killing me right now. I do love them so much and im pretty sure they wont be getting fed my version of events. I do miss them and my wee dog so so much. I know he thinks I don't care because I haven't tried to see them but ev...
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Wed Sep 11, 2019 4:53 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Finally out!!!!
Replies: 8
Views: 1337

Re: Finally out!!!!

Hey girls So sorry I haven't been on, I did go through a time of guilt etc there. Missing the boys, dog etc He has been diagnosed with depression and PTSD after a fall at xmas time but this has all been going on from the day I met him, maybe even before!!!! In a nut shell towards the end it was argu...
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Tue Jun 18, 2019 12:50 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Finally out!!!!
Replies: 8
Views: 1337

Re: Finally out!!!!

Thank you so much. I am not having the best day today and going to collect all my belongings tomorrow so probably Thursday before I am able to explain fully what happened.

Thanks again for all your support.

xx
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Tue Jun 18, 2019 9:35 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Finally out!!!!
Replies: 8
Views: 1337

Finally out!!!!

I am not sure if anyone will remember me but I got myself into a controlling & manipulative relationship a few years ago. I have struggled since but I am glad to say that I finally left. This may be 2 years 2 late but I finally done it!!!!!! I am mad at myself for letting it go on for so long but su...
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Tue Jun 18, 2019 9:30 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: I CANT WIN!!!!!!!
Replies: 40
Views: 15422

Re: I CANT WIN!!!!!!!

Hey, really sorry I vanished off the face of the earth. A lot had been going on. I just thought I would back and let you all know that I finally left the relationship. Yes I should have done so a year or 2 ago but I was in so deep I couldn't see a way out but on Friday it finally happened. To be hon...
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Thu Aug 24, 2017 8:01 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: I CANT WIN!!!!!!!
Replies: 40
Views: 15422

Re: I CANT WIN!!!!!!!

Hey. Oh I really didn't mean for my response to come out as proud or whatever. I really didn't because I know the situation is messed up. I just do genuinely think he does love me and even people I have spoken to about everything now think he does but can realise he has many many issues and life jus...
by SHYGLASGOWGIRL1988
Wed Aug 23, 2017 8:52 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: I CANT WIN!!!!!!!
Replies: 40
Views: 15422

Re: I CANT WIN!!!!!!!

Hey yeah I know. I am trying to think logically here. I can honestly say no I am not exaggerating at all. In fact I havnt said even half of what he is saying. If he was capable of doing what he says he will then it would b a perfect relationship and I do know he wants and yeah I even said this to hi...