Search found 1199 matches

by all_apologies
Wed Jul 15, 2015 5:25 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Just for fun - should I, or shouldn't I?!
Replies: 7
Views: 3807

Re: Just for fun - should I, or shouldn't I?!

Late to the game here, but I would say something on the off chance he might respond possibly and you might get a date out of it :) You didn't say how he responded, but you probably made his day nonetheless.
by all_apologies
Sun Nov 02, 2014 9:48 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Completely lost and confused
Replies: 4
Views: 1904

Re: Completely lost and confused

This is really tough and I do sympathise a lot. While being attracted to women should not mean that you are not in a loving, committed relationship, I would fear that if you leave this unexplored it'll lead to trouble down the line. It seems like you're fixated on this attraction. You have a few opt...
by all_apologies
Thu Jul 03, 2014 7:25 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Teenager confused over sexualty
Replies: 1
Views: 1148

Re: Teenager confused over sexualty

You've done the right thing in your approach with your daughter, and you should also feel pleased that, at 15, she feels comfortable enough to be open about it with you. By the age of 17 (just a little older than your daughter), my main outlet to vent about my sexuality was this very website. She ma...
by all_apologies
Sun May 04, 2014 3:19 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Embarrassed about gay talk.
Replies: 5
Views: 2229

Re: Embarrassed about gay talk.

Whether you're gay or not, it sounds like your issue with gay-centric conversation is that you're worried that others will somehow find out about your gay experiences when the general topic arises. I'm gay, out, comfortable with my sexuality and happy to talk about gay issues to the vast majority of...
by all_apologies
Fri Feb 07, 2014 7:47 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: torn between lust and a unique friendship. what to do?
Replies: 3
Views: 1952

Re: torn between lust and a unique friendship. what to do?

Hi Potato, what a predicament! This is a really rough situation - romantic troubles are difficult enough without throwing gender issues into the mix. Can I ask why you haven't talked to JD about your own gender? I'm cis but have a few trans* friends with whom I've regularly had discussions on gender...
by all_apologies
Tue Dec 10, 2013 8:17 pm
Forum: Mental wellbeing
Topic: im scared i hurt myself
Replies: 7
Views: 3167

Re: im scared i hurt myself

Hi Sara, try not to let the situation get to you. Put it into perspective - a job is just a job, it is not ever worth hurting yourself over. Even if the worst happened and you left that workplace, you could go off and find another job. You can't get another body - so don't abuse the one you've got! ...
by all_apologies
Thu Jul 18, 2013 11:16 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: New Member
Replies: 1
Views: 1369

Re: New Member

Welcome to the website, Anuar. :)
by all_apologies
Mon Jul 15, 2013 9:21 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Do you ever read your posts from years ago...
Replies: 17
Views: 7747

Re: Do you ever read your posts from years ago...

I have literally just been doing exactly the same thing. I joined the site almost ten years ago, as a 17-year-old still in high school. It's actually a nice record of growing up, especially with the site's very personal nature. It's funny how much you trivialise things that were once a huge deal to ...
by all_apologies
Sat Feb 09, 2013 2:57 am
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: Valentine's gifts in a new relationship
Replies: 5
Views: 2642

Valentine's gifts in a new relationship

Hi all... Not so much a problem as asking for ideas. I just started seeing a girl last week, we're spending a lot of time together and are pretty smitten. I've not before been in a situation where Valentine's has been so early in a relationship and am trying to think of appropriate gifts? Just today...
by all_apologies
Sun Dec 23, 2012 9:54 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: back by unpopular demand
Replies: 18
Views: 9484

Re: back by unpopular demand

Woah... seeing some old usernames mentioned brought back some old online memories!
by all_apologies
Thu May 24, 2012 8:24 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: hair dye
Replies: 2
Views: 1148

Re: hair dye

I find that most 'permanent' hair dyes are only vibrant on me for 4 weeks or so, but that it's washing it and not the sun that is the main culprit for the fading.
by all_apologies
Wed Apr 06, 2011 2:48 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Lesbian, but dreamt I was attracted to a girl with a penis?
Replies: 3
Views: 2207

Re: Lesbian, but dreamt I was attracted to a girl with a pen

Like Snail said, I wouldn't give it too much thought. I'm gay and often have dreams about having sex with guys, and in the dreams I'm often the one doing the pursuing. I know that in waking life I am not attracted to men, so I don't let it phase me. I find it funny more than anything else! I totally...
by all_apologies
Tue Jan 25, 2011 8:30 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: frustrated.
Replies: 7
Views: 2705

Re: frustrated.

Ah, I sympathise, and I relate. Maybe for now you should take it on an individual basis. This guy who's asking you out sounds like he doesn't do it for you, so that says to me it's probably best not to go out with him. Maybe it's because you're not into men, but maybe it's because you're just not in...
by all_apologies
Fri Jan 21, 2011 5:14 pm
Forum: Chit Chat
Topic: back by unpopular demand
Replies: 18
Views: 9484

Re: back by unpopular demand

Blast from the past!
by all_apologies
Wed Dec 29, 2010 3:44 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: frustrated.
Replies: 7
Views: 2705

Re: frustrated.

Hi fairy, nice to see one of the oldies back! Okay, first of all - the girl you were really into, would you have considered a relationship with her had she felt the same way? I ask because you say you weren't into the other girl you slept with and can't imagine having a relationship with a girl. I t...