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by Tucco
Sun Jun 23, 2019 5:16 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Girlfriend Tattoos advice
Replies: 3
Views: 814

Re: Girlfriend Tattoos advice

Hi there Smiler, For me you are in a bit of a tricky situation in regards to this, I think that if you were married or living together you would have more of a right to an opinion. As it stands at the moment this lady has every right to do what she wishes with her body. The only thing you can do is ...
by Tucco
Sun Dec 30, 2018 3:45 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Am I right or wrong?
Replies: 3
Views: 974

Re: Am I right or wrong?

Hi Claire,

Just a quick response, my general feeling is that successful relationships need a degree of compromise. Does your partner agree to do stuff with you which he does not like? If so you are wrong and should go, if not you are right.
Thanks.
by Tucco
Thu Mar 08, 2018 6:29 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Drinking Dilemma
Replies: 9
Views: 1838

Re: Drinking Dilemma

Hi there, I have a slightly different view, if you are saying he is drinking every day and is unable to stop or control the drinking then yes seek help from your GP or AA. However if I am understanding your post correctly then the problem is when you are out socially then he just goes too far and do...
by Tucco
Fri Sep 30, 2016 8:43 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Everything getting to me
Replies: 28
Views: 9542

Re: Everything getting to me

Hi there, Firstly I am really sorry to hear about your situation, the best advice I could give would be for you to contact a Cancer Charity like say McMillan. They will understand your situation completely and offer free help and guidance. If you felt they had been a help you could repay them by vol...
by Tucco
Wed Aug 10, 2016 7:28 pm
Forum: And the rest...
Topic: Is my arrangement prostitution
Replies: 18
Views: 7256

Re: Is my arrangement prostitution

Hi sophie, it seems to me that as you are both adults you are free to make any arrangements you wish. You do however need to be mindful of the arrangement affecting your regular job as it is your boss after all. You also did not mention if either of you is in a relationship as this could also be an ...
by Tucco
Tue Nov 10, 2015 7:05 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Sexless Marriage Advise Please
Replies: 7
Views: 2654

Re: Sexless Marriage Advise Please

Hi there, your post touched a cord with me as I was in a similar situation when I was married, my then wife was exactly how you describe your husband so your description of feeling unwanted etc really hit home. In my situation the lack of sex meant that I eventually would start to nag, this would le...
by Tucco
Fri Jul 10, 2015 8:50 am
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Awkward issues on relationship
Replies: 1
Views: 709

Re: Awkward issues on relationship

To be honest do you really need anyone to tell you the obvious? The guy is a lowlife, you need to cut all ties with him even if that means losing out on the money he owes you. In reality you can only expect the following from him, 1 to be constantly let down, 2 for your child to be constantly let do...
by Tucco
Sun Jul 05, 2015 6:06 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: My Ex's New partner being around my son
Replies: 3
Views: 774

Re: My Ex's New partner being around my son

Hi James, there are no easy answers I am afraid, it is clear that you and your ex are not meant as you have tried to make it work numerous times and failed, you need to concentrate on your child which you seem to be doing which is the main thing. Just try to keep on a "friendly" footing to ensure yo...
by Tucco
Sun Jul 05, 2015 5:09 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: My Ex's New partner being around my son
Replies: 3
Views: 774

Re: My Ex's New partner being around my son

Hi there, I am also the dad of an autistic child and very much understand the stresses and strains this can cause, however even if we take that out of the equation it seems like your ex has no issues introducing new men into your sons life on a fairly regular basis, this can be confusing for any 4 y...
by Tucco
Sun Jun 21, 2015 5:17 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Is it me? Help with girlfriend please!
Replies: 4
Views: 1341

Re: Is it me? Help with girlfriend please!

Hi there, as no one else has replied I thought I would jump in, so where to start? First , anxiety, depression & for that matter a low sperm count are no ones fault, I am sure your GF does not choose to have depression anymore than you choose to have anxiety so no one can be blamed for those issue`s...
by Tucco
Fri Feb 13, 2015 7:23 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Deciding to leave, but to some it's such a trivial reason
Replies: 14
Views: 2306

Re: Deciding to leave, but to some it's such a trivial reaso

The last bit is a bit more revealing, if she lacks general intimacy then something in her past maybe her parents relationship may have caused her to see your relationship as "normal". My wife is a very touchy feely sort of person but her sister is the opposite so that blows my own theory out if the ...
by Tucco
Thu Feb 12, 2015 7:38 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Deciding to leave, but to some it's such a trivial reason
Replies: 14
Views: 2306

Re: Deciding to leave, but to some it's such a trivial reaso

Hi there, I was in a similar situation with my first wife with the exception of we had an ok love life until we got married and then all changed from her side, thankfully there were no kids! Basically the lack of sex made me feel rejected with led me to be not so nice which led to even less chance o...
by Tucco
Thu Feb 05, 2015 7:52 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Irrational angst and paranoia
Replies: 13
Views: 3034

Re: Irrational angst and paranoia

Hi Wint, straight to the point; all relationships start out as a gamble (of sorts) and after a while you decide whether to go for it or not, if as in your case you decide to go for it you have to trust your partner, now then if it goes wrong what is the worst that can happen? Answer you break up and...
by Tucco
Sun Feb 01, 2015 5:11 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Advice needed please
Replies: 2
Views: 714

Re: Advice needed please

Hi there, you may find that he see`s you as a friend only, I would also say that if his Marriage has not long broken up he is unlikely to be ready to jump straight back into a relationship and wants to play the field a bit instead which is why he is happy texting and flirting. If you give him suppor...
by Tucco
Sun Feb 01, 2015 5:05 pm
Forum: Girlfriends & Boyfriends - Husbands & Wives
Topic: Break up confusion
Replies: 2
Views: 699

Re: Break up confusion

Hi Gem,

I think it is far too early in the relationship to start trying for a baby, if he is set to leave after just 4 months I think you have had a lucky escape.

Move on and good luck.